They can be insufferable douche bags too! And extroverts can be right sometimes, just as much as extroverts can be sweet, nice, down-to-earth and humble. Pretty much every extrovert is like that. Extroverts are not responsible for your happiness. Take care of your damn self and leave us alone. Never said extroverts are responsible for my happiness.
All I really ask is to be given respect for being an introvert and treat me with kindness. And posts like these piss me off. Like, yeah dude, it must be hard to literally close your lips for five seconds. You keep brushing over the fact that introverts make extroverts feel insecure just as much as extroverts do introverts.
Again, you're treating introversion like a personality trait, which it isn't. I've never heard of an introvert being bullied because of that. Because most of them don't.
Most of them are not bullied for being an introvert. You keep acting like ALL bullies are extroverts when that is far from truth. I was bullied more times than I could count in the past, all by introverts, but that doesn't mean all bullies are introverts. Introverts can damage extroverts just the same, extroverts can expect nothing good from people just the same. Introverts aren't misunderstood saints, they're just people who get energy from being alone. They aren't necessarily "misanthropes", they aren't necessarily people who dislike other humans.
YOU'RE not an introvert because you don't like human beings, you're an introvert because you gain energy from being around other people. And you say you've never met an extrovert who isn't narcissistic and ignorant just makes your comment ironic. But if you won't accept that, then I'll just say I've never met an introvert who isn't mean, insufferable, has a victim complex, and up their own arse. Also ironic, because for all you know, you could be making an extrovert insecure, you could be making them feel as if they have no worth, probably even SUICIDAL for all you know.
Don't say these type of things because you've never met a nice extrovert, it's so harmful. Many people have probably never met a nice introvert. Imagine if I said the same things you're saying, just in reverse. You're sure to attack me, so don't be surprised I'm taking offense into what you're saying. Nothing to do with personality, but the way introverts want to socialize, they get picked on for. And introverts are bullied for being introverted actually.
And again, if introverts are going to be mistreated, then no wonder they may act rudely or whatever. And how does being an extrovert being picked on by introverts affect them? They still think badly of introverts. Everyone does. Edit: introversion, extroversion, and ambiversion are personality types, as they focus on whether they feel more recharged with external stimuli or internal feelings.
Okay then, in that case, you're an idiot. You keep acting like all extroverts are bad, when I have grown up alongside the sweetest extroverts ever. I have met bad introverts and good ones who are loved by literally everyone , but does that mean the good ones haven't shown me their true colours? The way you get your energy doesn't affect your personality. Don't bother replying please, you're honestly a bully, and I don't want to waste my time on someone who aren't going to change their harmful views.
Hate people all you want! But don't hurt people. Leave them be, and if you want to hate on extroverts, don't do it on an extrovert subreddit.
It is a personality type actually. I mean, it's your own advice so shouldn't you be the only person it fully applies to? I just casually fill in for my introverted friends B hatethesilence. This post is just calling those type of people on reddit out :- There's no justifiable excuse to hate on someone, so there's no point saying you "quite understand it". I really wish the other moderators would wake up and ban these abusive weirdoes.
There are much more introverts then there are extroverts. How do such things happen if groups are not entered? An extrovert can be picked on for the same reasons an introvert is picked on too. Please don't take offense to something that never insulted or had anything TO DO with you. I literally saw this post, and it pissed me off seeing it. Then you take your own advice, stfu and keep scrolling. Why are you on this subreddit then? Her book, which hopes to rehabilitate the introvert, has struck a chord with readers and sparked a debate among commentators and armchair psychologists, while her TED talk has been watched by 1.
In American magazine Wired, Clive Thompson thinks Cain's book might help introverts get a better reputation. But in the New York Times, introvert author Judith Warner argues that a "more quiet argument" would have been much more effective. Meanwhile the Guardian's Jon Ronson is bemused that after concluding his whole family are ambiverts - which Cain defines as a mixture of extrovert and introvert - the group barely gets a mention in the book.
The year-old, who has written a number of blogs on introversion , agrees there are plus points to being an introvert, but says it can be difficult. I was OK with that for short periods of time, but after a certain point it became very tiring. It opened my eyes to how I'd been thinking about certain situations, and gave me a bit of comfort," he says. Dykeman says he found it difficult to voice an opinion in meetings earlier on in his career, but soon realised he needed to speak up and make points.
I think a lot of people learn the rules of the game learn to function. I'd suggest anyone that does feel uncomfortable in public settings educates themselves on introversion," he says.
Felicity Lee, a chartered occupational psychologist, says it is perfectly possible for introverts to try to act like an extrovert, but it will be more tiring for them.
American and Canadian culture tends to value the qualities of extroverts more than other cultures, but Lee thinks a bias towards extroversion also exists in the workplace and wider society in Britain. Once you decide to do something, you usually just go for it without worrying too much about what might happen.
You may not spend a lot of time considering all potential outcomes, and people might even describe you as impulsive. Extroverted people often find it easier to understand and solve problems when they can talk through them, restate them in their own words, or seek input from other people.
Do you talk about it to as many people as you can to get different perspectives? Sort through your thoughts out loud? Extroverted people usually have little to no trouble expressing thoughts, feelings, and opinions.
These can range from minor preferences, such as the foods you dislike, to deeper emotions, including romantic feelings.
While some people might think of you as blunt, the ability to clearly communicate how you feel without hesitating or worrying what others might think can often be a positive trait. Extroverted people recharge best in the company of other people. You might move from one social setting to another, like to have people around you most of the time, and avoid spending time by yourself whenever possible. Optimism is one key way extroversion often shows up. If something bad happens, it still affects you, and you probably still have days where you feel down — just like most people.
But you may have an easier time finding silver linings in a negative situation. You likely have a few best friends or people you feel extra connected to. When faced with a new opportunity, or any big decision, you probably spend a good amount of time thinking it over before you make any plans to proceed.
This can relate to a preference for internal dialogue and reflection. But a dislike of conflict can also play a part. Research suggests introverts often have a higher sensitivity to negative feedback.
If you do join a debate or discussion, you might be more likely to share your ideas in written form, anonymously, or both. Responding in writing gives you the chance to think over what you want to say first, which is probably what feels most comfortable to you. People on the more introverted end of the spectrum often spend a lot of time in their heads.
But that world is where you do your best work. You might think through challenges or use your imagination to brainstorm new ideas. Sharing those thoughts and feelings out loud may not come easily to you, but it might seem completely natural to write, illustrate, or set them to music. When at work, among friends, or in other social settings, you usually settle comfortably into the background. The myth that introverts are shy or socially anxious stems from this natural tendency to quietly observe.
Sure, you might avoid small talk, prefer to let the noise of the crowd wash over you, or feel better when you can tune everyone out with headphones. But you also listen and weigh ideas carefully, and when asked for your opinion, you often have quality ideas to contribute. And the whole thing about introverts not being leaders? Needing to recharge your batteries after a long day by enjoying some quiet downtime alone tends to suggest an introverted nature, according to MacCutcheon.
Instead, you most likely share your available social energy with a handful of close friends. Maybe a combination of traits from the two lists best fit your personality.
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